Crafting Your Ideal Christmas: How To Focus On What Truly Matters!
Oct 23, 2023

As we navigate through the maze of holiday planning, shopping, and social commitments, it's easy to lose sight of what we genuinely want our Christmas to be. It's a season that often comes loaded with expectations—both self-imposed and societal. Whether you're a mum looking to create magical memories for your children or a mumpreneur trying to juggle the demands of the season alongside running a business, it’s crucial to take a step back and think about what you truly want from this Christmas. Here's a guide to help you focus on what really matters to you this holiday season.


Reflecting on past Christmases

Before diving into plans for this year's festivities, it may be helpful to take some time to reflect on past holiday seasons. What worked well last year? What aspects would you rather avoid repeating? Were there moments when you felt stressed rather than joyful? By assessing previous holidays, you can zero in on the elements that are most important to you and your family, which is especially crucial for busy mums and mumpreneurs who already have a lot on their plates.

Resisting social pressures

It's quite common to feel pressured to conform to social norms around Christmas—whether it's the kind of gifts we give, the parties we should attend, or the ‘perfect’ way to decorate our homes. While some of these activities can indeed enhance our holiday experience, it's essential to recognise which ones align with your vision for the season. This awareness provides you with the freedom to say "no" to activities and obligations that don't serve your goals for a peaceful, fulfilling holiday. It can even give you the power to stay away from those Instagram-ready, perfected-Christmas-decoration images on social media!

Setting intentions

Once you have a better understanding of what you want—and what you don't—it's time to set your intentions for the season. Would you prefer a low-key Christmas focused on quality family time? Or perhaps a more social holiday season filled with parties and gatherings aligns with your idea of festive joy. Whatever it may be, setting clear intentions provides a framework to plan activities that genuinely resonate with you.

Open communication is key

Setting intentions is a great start, but these intentions need to be communicated openly with family members to truly come to life. Whether it’s discussing gift budgets, planning visits, or even allocating holiday tasks, transparent communication ensures everyone is on the same page. This is especially vital for mumpreneurs who might need to manage family expectations alongside business responsibilities during the holiday season.

A final note

The Christmas season often arrives with a rush of activities, responsibilities, and social obligations. However, by taking a proactive approach to planning a holiday that aligns with your true desires, you can transform what is often a hectic season into a meaningful celebration. Through reflection, resisting social pressures, setting clear intentions, and fostering open communication, you pave the way for a Christmas that fills you with joy rather than stress—a season focused on what genuinely matters to you and your loved ones.


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